Workshop @ Spiral Circle Bookstore, Orlando

Learn how to stop overgiving, understand why you under-receive, and start becoming more magnetic, confident, valued, and supported in love, work, and life.

How to Stop Overgiving & Start Receiving More

Learn how to stop being the woman who gives everything — and start becoming the woman who receives more.

Hosted by: Lola Sola Collective
Location: Spiral Circle Bookstore
Address: 750 N Thornton Ave, Orlando, FL 32803
Date: June 27, 2026
Tickets:On sale for $15 — regular price $37

Finally understand why you give so much — and still feel overlooked.

Get clarity on the hidden pattern behind overgiving.

Not because you are “too nice.”

Not because you care too much.

But because somewhere along the way, your body may have learned:

“If I give enough, prove enough, help enough, or become easy enough… I’ll finally be chosen.”

In this workshop, you’ll begin to understand how that belief can quietly shape how you show up in:

• Love

• Dating

• Friendships

• Family

• Career

• Sales

• Leadership

• Social spaces

And more importantly, you’ll learn how to begin shifting it.

Get out of the cycle of proving, pleasing, and over-functioning.

You’ll learn why constantly doing more can sometimes get you less.

Less reciprocity.

Less recognition.

Less support.

Less pursuit.

Less emotional investment.

Because overgiving can unintentionally train people to expect your energy without valuing it.

This workshop will help you start recognizing where you are:

• Giving more than you are receiving

• Overexplaining instead of asking clearly

• Carrying people who do not carry you back

• Shrinking to stay liked

• Settling for bare-minimum effort

• Working harder to prove what should already be obvious

Learn how to stop being liked — and start being valued.

Being liked is not the same as being valued.

Being useful is not the same as being chosen.

Being needed is not the same as being loved.

Inside this workshop, you’ll learn the difference between:

• Being agreeable vs. being respected

• Being available vs. being prioritized

• Being helpful vs. being valued

• Being desired vs. being emotionally used

• Being “easygoing” vs. abandoning your own needs

This is where the shift begins.

Discover why receiving feels uncomfortable — even when you want more.

You’ll explore why support, attention, love, money, care, and recognition can feel unfamiliar or even unsafe.

You may want to receive more, but still find yourself:

• Feeling guilty when someone helps you

• Downplaying your desires

• Asking for less than you actually want

• Explaining why you “deserve” support

• Rejecting compliments or generosity

• Feeling uncomfortable when things come easily

This workshop will help you name the pattern so you can start changing it.

Learn how your body language changes how people respond to you.

Get introduced to the power of presence.

You’ll learn how your posture, eye contact, energy, and body language can influence how people perceive you before you even speak.

You’ll begin exploring how to:

• Command attention without forcing it

• Hold yourself with more confidence

• Stop sending mixed signals

• Become more grounded and magnetic

• Let your presence communicate self-worth

• Walk into rooms with more authority and ease

Become more magnetic without chasing, forcing, or overexplaining.

This workshop will help you understand why magnetism is not about becoming fake, unavailable, or manipulative.

It is about becoming more anchored in your own value.

You’ll learn how to begin shifting from:

• Chasing → attracting

• Proving → embodying

• Overgiving → receiving

• Shrinking → being seen

• Hinting → asking clearly

• Settling → expecting reciprocity

• Being overlooked → being valued

Get practical shifts you can start noticing immediately.

You’ll leave with a clearer understanding of how to start changing the way you show up in everyday interactions.

You’ll learn how to:

• Stop defaulting into the giver role

• Notice when you are over-functioning

• Ask for what you want with more confidence

• Stop apologizing for your needs

• Hold higher standards without overexplaining

• Recognize low-investment dynamics faster

• Shift your focus, energy, and timing

• Begin receiving more in love, work, and life

Learn how to become the woman people naturally choose, support, and invest in.

This workshop is designed to help you stop performing for connection and start embodying the version of you who expects reciprocity.

Not by becoming colder.

Not by playing games.

Not by pretending not to care.

But by healing the belief that you have to earn love, attention, support, success, or care through sacrifice.

Get introduced to Lola’s 90-day program.

At the end of the workshop, Lola will briefly introduce her signature 90-day program, currently referred to as:

90 Days to Becoming The Woman That Gets What She Wants

This program is for women who want deeper support in rewiring the overgiving identity, building magnetic presence, communicating desires clearly, raising standards, and becoming more confident, valued, chosen, and supported.

Event Details

Get the tools to stop overgiving and start receiving more.

Workshop: How to Stop Overgiving & Start Receiving More
Hosted by: Lola Sola Collective
Location: Spiral Circle Bookstore
Address: 750 N Thornton Ave, Orlando, FL 32803
Date: June 27, 2026
Tickets:$15 sale price
Regular price: $37

Come get the shift you’ve been needing.

Stop giving everything away.

Start understanding why you under-receive.

Learn how to become more magnetic, confident, valued, and supported — in love, work, and life.